· Look close to home - check for eligible men with your friends, family and places you hang out, like local bars. Like a lost sock, a potential husband can be much closer to home than you'd expect!

· Carefully pick where you shop - your top three husband requirements will help determine where to look. If you're shopping for something special, you go to a specialist shop - if you want a Prada handbag for example, you go to Selfridges. Same goes for husbands - if you'd like him to be sporty, join your local sports club.

· What are your assets and liabilities? Be honest, or ask your male friends. Make sure you put your assets up front and work out what you can do to minimize your liabilities.

· Widen your pool - internet dating is now totally mainstream. Websites like Loopylove.com boast three weddings per week! Make sure you contact the men you fancy, rather than just leaving it to them. And give speed dating a try too.

· Hire some help - when you're sick you go to the doctor, if your car has broken down you go to a mechanic. Struggling to find a husband? Consider hiring a dating coach or going to a dating agency.

· It's going to be a challenge - finding a husband these days is like finding your perfect home or job. It's going to be a lot of work and there are going to be disappointments along the way. Had a knock? Listen to my special Disappointment Zapper MP3 to help soften the blow!

To find out more about Date Doctor Sam Van Rood or to make an appointment with him, visit his website, www.samvanrood.com.