I am 21 with 2 kids under 5 i put on a lot of weight with my youngest she 3 months old i went up to 15 stone i am now 12 stone i dont feel sexy at all im not me no more im mum,house wife,cleaner,cook and at the end of the day all i want is sleep not sex. My husband understands some of what im feeling.I still have clothes that are size 10 that i want to wear again i eat healthy fresh fruit veg and meet and walk about 1 hour aday.I still were maternity clothes.Every week i say i will put some money aside for some nice clothes or underwear to make me feel better but somthing always comes up and i end up paying out for somthing else how can i get my sex drive back and feel sexy agen?

Red wine, kiwi fruit, and that gorgeous kaftan from Next (see 6 of the best kaftans). I wish I was 12 stone again. You have done really well to lose 3 stone in as many months. Aim for 9 hours sleep a night and put the maternity clothes away - they must be too warm this weather.