Posts by: anji

Thanks guys,
yeah he has a mate he can talk to but hes been told not to discuss there personal life with him whats she like eh..i feel for him so much the hardest thing in the world is to sit and watch your beloved child get walked over. :(

Sorry guys im on a role here,got to get it off my chest,
as above, the eldest son of mine has been seeing this girl for 2 months,he is besotted with her,give her her due,she is very sweet to me but i see the other side to her.
She totally controls him,she doesent like him seeing his mate,going out to pub for a few hrs or anything,steves mate actually asked her if him and steve could go to the pub the other day (he was being sarcastic) and when she was going she said to steve "dont you dare spend to much money"

she now wants to get engaged on the 28th june they would have been going out 4 months shes choosing an engagement cake with her mum when i said whats the rush she said well i want a ring {{{alarm bells}}}

She speaks to him so abruptly, shows little affection to him,yet hes all over her.
It breaks my heart to watch,as he has a heart of gold, i have very tactfully mentioned this but he wont have anything said about her.
Her friend goes out with my other son,they have been together 3 years,she told me the other sons g/friend never talks affectionatly about steve.
I remember when i was dating my husband for months its like walking on air,you cant stop talking about your bloke...but not here..

My husband tells me to let them get on with it, not easy though.

My other son and his girlfriend i get on brill with,they fight but she is so loving towards him and its so different.

Sorry to go on guys,some advice to an interfering mum would be good right now ...anji

Jacqui,
Trust me girl,having them bring the girls home is a nightmare.

My two eldest 15 and 19 have their girls here EVERY NIGHT and dont even think of suggesting they go to hers.

You get caught up in their silly rows and of course the tears

It of course dosent help,if you are not keen on his/her choice of partner or like my eldest sons g/friend controls him and talks to him like dirt in front of me i have to sit on my tongue :p and :D smile sweetly.

Sorry just an insight to the joys of your kids dating .....anji

im up for it. :D my neighbour has an identical house but i only know her to say "hallo"... :D

What are you lot on about...steph ...triangles

have joined and waiting for reply.. :D

I too have laminated, as above it does get dusty etc but like the rest say can you imagine if that was in the carpet,the kids spill stuff all the time and forget to take off shoes so in that sence its a relief,you can just mop it over. and it does eliminate pet odours and reliefs my sons asthma, down side,i think myself, i miss the comfort of carpets,it can give a cold feeling, but it also gives the room a classy feel.
If i think about it i wouldent go back to carpet as they can get quite smelly,and with 5 kids and a shed load of pets i think laminated is a better choice.

Hi jacqui
YOO0 HOO...AT LAST....
sanding the drips..lol... :D ...dont complain or he wont do anything else,i reckon men do jobs badly so we wont ask them again

GARDEN NEXT,, :D :D :D

Hi all ...ooh the lights sound really nice...and cheap.will go to bath when i have some spare time.

Sounds a very interesting job tina

must go speak soon
anji

Mines under the stairs not in a cuboard but under the slope.

Jill what is up with you today..question after question...

hi jacqui
oh what a shame about the grass.big gardens have so much potential,write to ground force and get them to do it and when he comes home you can say...SUPRISE..:eeek:

i had loads of flowers when i moved as i transported them all over to the new house..they are all dead now,obviously digging them up and putting in pots was not a good idea...

hi tina

i dont know where laura ashley is but i can just ask.
what do you do for work tina?
Thanks very much for your help...anji

Ooh i would be interested too//

oh there working now

ok...wots up with my smillys.. :(

A 100 foot..nice,i would love that,what i could do with that.
You mentioned an ornamental cherry,they are beautiful,can you keep them in a small garden,i would love a tree,i love willows as well.

i have to put my labels next to the plant to remember what its called...how good am i i dont know how these gardners remember all these plants names let alone the latin names..

oooh charlie...of course size matters,and if youre a bloke,dont let any woman tell you different...

Hi tina
thanks, thats great,yeah i go to bath on the train a lot,its only a 20 min journey. Next time im there i will have to find it,i go to bath a lot and do you know i have never seen habitat,is it in the town centre?...thanks guys..anji.

Got him out there then jacqui,bet the spindles are not done .
Yes gardening can be wonderfull if you know what your doing,which i dont.The garden we have now is full of furniture,which is off to the tip on sunday,,yoo hoo..but unfortunatly i have a tiny garden now compared to my old house and i hate it.I am determind to do somthing to it this year,i couldent be bothered last year,i just spent the summer moaning about it.I have terrible neighbours whos dog is permantly barking in the garden and trying to rip down our new fence keep us updated on your garden,how big is it?...anji

Claire
Have you a habitat in bristol,want to know where my nearest is and bristol is only 45 mins in the car from me...anji.

p.s cass,you have got to read jills posting in homes "how to give a cat a pill"... :D

Good to hear from you cass,
hope all goes well with hospital.
Will look out for your thoughts
love anji

hi ho stranger did you answer the conservatory question,good luck hope all goes well,send us some pics..anji

oooh just had a play on the garden designer,how good is that,better than the homes one,you should do a competition like you did on homes,hosts...

leave a posting for akingsho she works in a planning dept...i think...i know its for the council...