I'm 36yrs old, married with one son (2yrs) and work 32.5 hrs a week.

I'm finding myself in a body rut, basically i hate everything about me and have spent over an hour taking measurements. I find that i have a weird body shape.

Am currently wearing 42F bra's - the measurements i've taken and bra calculators measure me at a 46D
My hips are for a size 20, waist is for a size 28 and bust is for a size 22 - WTH is going on???

How do i find clothes that fit, if i'm all over the place measurement wise?

My boobs sag terribly, awful stretchmarks and flabby as anything and they feel heavy, my flabby tummy is awful (i don't have any stretchmarks atall!!!!) and the bingo wings are just disgusting.
When i have my jeans on my tummy looks like it's being split in two at the zip crotch area.

I just don't have time to concentrate on toning as I work almost full time and when i try it's ok for a while then something happens which knocks me off course.

I did body combat for weeks and loved it, missed it for 2 weeks as couldn't afford to go and the following week it felt like i had only just started again as felt absolutely knackered when it finished.

I want to feel gorgeous, feminine, sexy, not dumpy, flabby and fat