we are having problms with our 15 year old daughter, she was found by the police the other night at 12pm with 4 chaps no other females , god only knows what she was up to . after she got her older sister to drop her at this house . i may add that the older sister never even came and told we what she had done , knowing we was frantic with worry not knowing were our 15 year old was
she plays we up like hell and gets people even her own sister to cover an lie for her what should we do how can we put her back on the right track without she thinking we are dictateing to her

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just to bring you all up to date yes it happend the daughter finaly paid the price for her unruly ways by becoming preganant , she fell for the same old clap trap that youths of today give oh i love you i want to be with you etc etc he presto to get her in bed when he got what he wanted guess what he told her he wants nothing more to do with her and his ultimate gift was to tell her to get rid of his baby ,
some person i ask myself
it only goes to show what happens when children try to be adults
it is we the parents that have to pick up the pieces it will be we left holding the baby but would she listern
does any 12 13 14 15 year old they think they know best

hi all the lastes on our teen pregnant daughter
she only as a few more weks left before she herself becomes a mother at 15 god willing as their have been problms along the way.
all we can hope is both daughter and baby will be fine,
over the past months the attitude off her as gotten worce ranging from temper tantrums to outright hatefullness she will not go to school yes we can understand being shall we say lumpy . and we do all we can to try to make her go but to no avail only a matter of time before the powers that be jump on we the so called chap who put her in this way as had nothing to do with her at all and insist it is not his may be this is a blessing for who would want as a father a person who told her to get rid of it .
the next few months will be verry hard for we all not to mention crying baby again at 50 years old how we dread the sleepless nights again still i guess i could always get some earplugs

hi folks to keep you up to date our daughter gave birth to her own daughter 13th aug 06 , she thought she was going to have it easy but the pain she had to go throu she said she wished she had listerned
i am glad to say we have both stood by her and the baby she is going to find it hard what with fitting schooling in as well but we are there to help no matter what even thou we thought she was wrong in the first place
any advice from fellow parents would be welcome

Hey, I have been following your posts. I am so pleased you stuck by your daughter. My daughter is 12 going on 18 with serious attitude. Im crying out for help. She was so loving a year ago, now she is the devil in disguise. She hates us, absolutley detests us. we are an average family of 4, mum, dad, 2 daughters. We have a wonderful extended family all nans, grandads, auts, uncles, cousins. All very close. she is surrounded by love. Yet has so much hate. She is so frustrated and angry all the time. It has helped to read your posts and I would love to know how your little granddaughter is. How is your daughter coping with the demands of a little one. Wishing you all the luck in the world.

hi millsy72
first may we say we know what you are going through , you sound as a loving caring family , but at times find it hard to cope with childrens unruly attitude , boy oh boy have we had this from not only the daughter above but with our others six in all yes 6
perhaps she is being like this because she wants her own way an not thinking of the out come , most children these days think they know it all and want their own thing before they are ready , have you tried talking to a councilor , or taking her to behaviour classes >

now a little of our follow up we stood by our daughter and her lovely child ,for the first 6 months only for we to be treated cruley , i took to her as if she was one of my own , we done everything for her from botty changing to feeding playing etc etc only for our daughter to lie in bed most the day , only once did she wash the little tots cloths , granted she would feed her some times n bath her then she started with her games wouldnt go to school even though the school reduced her time tabble , then she started mixing with undesirables , from a child abuser to partner batterer,
and would go and stay for a week we being frantic with worry so i tried to keep her in my mistake this only lead to her bunking off , social services would not listern to me about my concerns , and now we have lost both of them , she is in some kind of accommadation she ignores all our phone calls n txts she as really broke my heart
i will gladly give more detail if any one wants in the mean time i hope you can pull your daughter back on track